Here's the question:. A question about ass-play: I think my partner might want it, and I am a little skeeved out by the idea of licking his asshole. It is a total double standard, because I love when he licks mine. How do I get past this? What's wrong with that answer—and a guide to rimming for straight girls—after the jump Dan, I love your shit! I have been reading since I was 14, and I'm so thankful I found a good source of healthy, non-shameful and exciting sexual information at that age. Your advice is always good—except your advice to the girl that wanted to give her boyfriend a rimmer. That was WAY off.

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How should my partner prepare for a rim job?
Rimming , or analingus, involves licking, kissing, sucking, or penetrating someone's butt with your tongue. And it can be a lot of fun, if that's what you're into. Like any kind of sexual exploration, communication, consent and trust are key. But if you're thinking about going down there, here's everything you need to know beforehand. These 8 women explain what they like, or don't like, about rimming, and how it feels for them.
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Rimming is having a moment. The anus is the exterior portion, the rectum is the interior portion. The simple answer—because it feels good! The anus has nerve endings and enjoys being stimulated.
What the flying fuck?! That's because it can feel incredible to stimulate the nerve endings around the anus, not to mention there's something sexy and "taboo" about the act that turns some people on. All of which is to say, it makes sense that you're curious about how to eat ass.