I am a something male. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. Should I marry him. By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life. Then you complain when the polish of being married to a doctor wears off and you grow callused to the money and big house. Wow just found this blog and for the first time am in mid's feel some support as an MD's wife of 30 years who is socially isolated he has very few friendsgetting despondent, bitter and resentful due to having some expectations which are met with constant disappointment. My mom was a single mother with a lower than average income working full time so she understood that aspect. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce.
In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. I am actually tired of the "excuse" that his work is so important or it's a calling. Thank you so much for your comment. Life is too short. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen. For an example of what this means - say you get hurt in a car accident. This post and the comments are an eye opener.
Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. I fully understand the fact that I need to do those things so I can accomplish my dream. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. Not sure if you are, or not. Am I that woman.
I have been doubting if this relationship is going to work because I hardly ever talk to him so my first reaction is okay who else is he seeing??. I am giving him all of those things. I read through a few of the LDS. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. I do not see this going well. I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother. I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights.